Did You Hear What I Didn’t Say?

Do You Hear What I’m Not Telling You?

“The greatest threats to leadership aren’t found in urgent emails or broken processes. They’re found in what goes unspoken: the question that didn’t get asked, the idea someone hesitated to share, or the concern that was silently rationalized. And while not everything needs to be said, more needs to be heard.”*

This quote came from a column in a recent Healthcare Executive magazine, and it immediately grabbed my attention.  We have long noticed that the front line staff of clients or while conducting site visits will often tell us about issues but not their own supervisors, managers, or leaders. I believe that it isn’t because we’re particularly charming but because we ask the right questions and they won’t have any repercussions from speaking up to us.

The Right Questions
Even if you round on your employees, they still may be hesitant to express concerns.  That’s where a question like, “What do you need to make your job easier?” rather than, “Is everything okay?” comes into play.  And if they still seem reluctant to share, probe for specifics, “Do you get communication in a timely manner?” “Are your supplies readily available?”  “Do you need some cooperation from other departments?”
Another question we like to ask is, “If you had a magic wand and could change just one thing around here, what would it be?”  Yes, sometimes we hear about pay and hours, but more often than not, we hear about the barriers that slow work down or impede teamwork.

Ambiguity Is the Killer of Execution
As a leader, do you have reliable feedback loops when you launch an initiative or change a policy? Do you make it easy for people to ask questions without seeming like they are challenging you? Do you quickly scan through the departments involved to see if the behavior(s) you sought to modify are actually present – and deployed across, up and down throughout the organization?  In the same column, the author talks about inviting clarification, particularly when there is ownership shared across leaders and departments. “These are not ‘soft skills.’ They’re strategic corrections that improve throughput, reduce rework, and preserve trust.”
Speaking of Trust
Multiple studies across a variety of industries have shown that creating psychological safety in the workplace is key to high levels of safety, morale, and performance.  In healthcare we sometimes hear about a “Just Culture.”
“Just Culture refers to a values-supportive system of shared accountability where organizations are accountable for the systems they have designed and for responding to the behaviors of their employees in a fair and just manner. Employees, in turn, are accountable for the quality of their choices and for reporting both their errors and system vulnerabilities.” https://www.justculture.healthcare/
If leaders are truly committed to a Just Culture, they need to be prepared for some initial “adverse” trends in critical metrics: near misses in safety, medication errors, reports of potential ethical breaches, and customer complaints.  All of these increases are the result of employees being not only willing, but eager, to identify issues and get help from leadership in resolving them.
A Final Ingredient to Help Stop the Silence
Reinforcing your desire for more communication with greater transparency from your employees. How do you reward and recognize the brave staff member who shares a concern, reports a near miss or actual incident, raises the flag over a broken process, or identifies barriers – even in leadership behaviors – to more effective and efficient work?
What the Baldrige Excellence Framework Has to Say About Leaders and Listening
Item 1.1b asks, “How do senior leaders communicate with and engage the entire workforce, key partners, and key customers?” It also asks how senior leaders encourage frank, two-way communication.  That phrase was added to the Framework in 2003 following the collapse of Enron and Tyco, due in part to their senior leaders silencing any negative news and intimidating potential whistle blowers.
How can you tell if you are encouraging frank, two-way communication? Ask yourself when was the last time an employee gave you bad news, and you didn’t shoot the messenger?  What are you doing to promote a Just Culture? And when did you and your senior leaders ask for blunt feedback from each other and your workforce?
The closing thought in the column should cause pause for every leader, “Because what goes unnoticed doesn’t go away. It just waits – until it can’t be ignored.”

Candidates Sought for 2026 Prestigious Baldrige Executive Fellows Program

Hands-On Leadership Development

Candidates are being sought for the next cohort of the Baldrige Executive Fellows Program, a one-year, leadership development experience designed to facilitate dialogue on all aspects of leadership and how it relates to a visionary focus, strategy, operational excellence, customer and employee engagement, and sustainability. The program is for C-suite-level executives or accomplished leaders who report to the most senior leader in their organization.

Join a Community of Visionary Leaders

Fellows will participate in facilitated visits around the country to role-model organizations who have won the Baldrige Award. Each visit will focus on specific categories of the Baldrige Excellence Framework, drilling down on the challenges of leadership and opportunities for innovation. Behind-the-scenes tours at each site visit, which have included tours of factories, hospitals, hotels, innovation labs, city engineering projects, and more, will highlight the best practices of the recipient organizations and ways to adapt improvements for Fellows’ own organizations. During the year-long program, Fellows will receive real-time coaching from Baldrige executive legends and develop relationships with and learn from Baldrige Award recipient senior executives. Within a safe and confidential environment, Fellows also have a unique opportunity to compare the perspectives of executives across sectors, share honest advice on leadership solutions, and use the insights gained to address a strategic challenge or opportunity within their own organizations. We encourage you to  learn more about how the Baldrige Executive Fellows Program can help you take your organization to the next level. You can learn about the personal experiences of Baldrige Executive Fellows who have participated in the program, by reading interviews on the website.

Join us for the 37h Quest for Excellence® Conference, Sunday, March 29 – Wednesday, April 1, 2026, at the Baltimore Marriott Waterfront, Baltimore, Maryland.

The conference will feature new and exciting opportunities to learn role model best practices from nationally recognized thought leaders, Baldrige Award recipients, and representatives from other high-performing organizations.

Conference and hotel registrations will open in November 2025 through Showcare, the official conference registrar and housing bureau.

Enjoy sessions focusing on organizational resilience and future emerging challenges, take home solutions to help your organization achieve breakthrough performance and results in areas such as leadership; strategy; customers; measurement, analysis, and knowledge management; workforce; and operations.
Train, get certified, and unlock your true leadership potential by enrolling in any of the 400+ educational programs offered by the Baldrige Foundation Institute for Performance Excellence. Elevate your skills through cutting-edge curriculum designed to cultivate effective communication, strategic vision, and team empowerment. Join us today to embark on a journey of professional development. These programs are highly customizable, and you are encouraged to contact Josh Racette, President & CEO, at jracette@baldrigefoundation.org to learn more. To view additional information about all educational opportunities offered by the Institute for Performance Excellence, please visit www.baldrigeinstitute.org/education.

CEO Position for the Performance Excellence Network 

To see a description of the position,

https://performanceexcellencenetwork.org/pensights/position-announcement-pen-president-ceo/

To apply, interested candidates should fill out an application form at the following link: https://app.smartsheet.com/b/form/e7ae8debfab442e6a8fbb07d6502d1a2. Applicants will also be asked to upload BOTH a letter of interest and a résumé.
PEN will begin review applications December 1, 2025. Questions should be directed to Brad Ballinger at Cincinnatus (brad@cincinnatus.com, 651-341-5027).
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